If you have no desire for obedience, you are not a Christian. I’m sorry. You might have seen a sketch about hell when you were 7 years old that scared you, but if there is no desire in your heart for obedience, if you can posture yourselves (“I don’t care what the Bible says, I don’t care what God says; I’m going to do it my way”), you’re not a believer. The Spirit testifies to our spirit that we are children of God because we desire to do what the Lord would have us do. That’s how the Spirit testifies to our spirit.